Recently most of my posts have been, er, shall we say a little on the negative side. On the one-hand thats fine - they reflect my thoughts at the moment and also provide a little breathing space for my mind.
However today I want to write about something more positive. You see today a few of us from the house went over to Derbyshire for my housemate Dave's graduation meal. And it was great.
Firstly it was simply a priviledge to be present. For the meal was a thankyou from Dave to those closest in his life - those whom he feels truly grateful to for helping him through the last ten years of his life. And the fact that he asked us to be present was fantastic - a real honour. It trully felt remarkable to be part of an occasion like that.
Secondly it was just a great time of friendship between me, Steve, Danny and Evans. There is something about going doing something
different with people that can strengthen friendship remarkably - no matter how well you know people. And today felt like that. Call it the 'road trip' effect... Or whatever. It was great.
Thirdly it was a fantastic opportunity to meet new people, and also people you hear of over time, but never meet. For example - over the years Dave would tell us about his family, but most of us had never really met any of them. Until today. And... it was cool. We sat on a table with one of his brothers, who was a class guy - very funny and remarkably like Dave. Also on our table we had Dave's best mates from home and elsewhere and again it was fun. We'd never met before but still we had a good laugh and the spirits were high.
Fourthly, well there are the asthetics. Food wise, we had a delicous 4 course meal. Really nice, plus of course we didn't have to pay for it. Bonus. Add to that the location - Hassop Hall ( a house probably about 400-500 years old) set in the beautiful Derbyshire countryside. It was fantastic. Oh and we had free drinks too - wine, champagne, and sherry - though not
too much was consumed. Honestly...
And lastly it was a splendid day for some stand out reasons. On the one hand we had Dave driving up to the place in a tractor. This was something I really don't think we were expecting (nor was he by all accounts), but it is his boyhood dream so it was great that it was fulfilled. Raises my hopes that my parents will one day fulfill my boyhood dream of flying a jet fighter. Hmm.. Maybe not..
In addition its not something you do every day. Ie put on a suit, drive to a manison in a national park, drink sherry on the lawn before retiring to a sumptuous room to eat a four course meal in good company.
So it was a grand day.
R